Welcome to this amazing life James Patrick Fullan! James is my great-nephew, and he took his first breath of air yesterday morning. He’s a great looking little guy, but I’ll leave the pictures to his mom and dad. Bad looking Irish folks just don’t exist.
James made the first great leap from his comfort zone yesterday when he left his small world of warmth and instantaneous problem resolution probably very much against his will. His transition was uncomfortable for him and painful for his mother, and he now has to learn to cope with varying temperature, hunger, pain and sickness. I’m sure today it doesn’t seem like a very good trade-off to him, but he didn’t have much of a choice.
As his reward for passing his first test in life though, he now gets to experience the loving comfort of his mother’s arms and the pride of his father holding up his boy for all to see. He gets to experience the gift of sight, perhaps not yet well-defined, but no matter. Every minute of his waking life will be a trip to the New World full of adventure, discovery and accomplishment. Already his journey is bringing joy and a renewed sense of community and family to those around him.
James’ father will very quickly experience a painful transition of his own as he leaves the innocence and beauty of his newborn son and heads back to war in Afghanistan. It seems the rest of the world did not care that James was born, and they continue to fight. James’ dad is a great man, and his life will provide a high bar for this boy as he grows to understand the lesson of birth: Life is a constant, unavoidable stream of change and struggle, but each challenge faced brings new experience, joy and gained understanding.
Had he been given a list of potential mothers to choose from, James could not have selected a better one. If fathers are there to push us into the fray, mothers are there to hold us together during the fight. Moms make sure that the struggles of life don’t break us, and they give us the gift of love, comfort, unwavering support … and personal hygiene. James will have a hot plate of cookies waiting for him after a hard afternoon of getting dirty in the back yard, a nurse’s healing hand on those mean owies, and a shoulder to cry on when he gets his heart broken. His mother is one of the most quality women I know.
Most importantly, James will have a Family. A Dad and a Mom with a sense of purpose and demonstrated love and devotion to their Creator. He will learn early of the Savior that will make his life eternal, and of the wisdom that will produce value in his temporal life. He will see modeled a sense of duty and sacrifice, virtue, music, industry and charity. He will be gifted with the foundation of family both immediate and extended. He will be a child of privilege in the true sense of the word.
So no pressure James Patrick, but we’re all watching you. Walk boldly into the breach, and learn your lessons well. Our world needs more great men and women like your dad and mom, and you look like a good candidate. May God bless your life, and may you be a mighty man in Him!
PS. Thanks for finally making me a great uncle!